We all go through this problem. We make friends with people, we make quarrels with people, we do things, we don’t do things, we read books, we counsel with others, we watch informative shows and lectures; all with the hopes that we would one day wake up to the great epiphany of knowing who we are as people. The greatest mistake with all this is the fact that we are too busy trying so meticulously to find ourselves through other people, when perhaps the answer is in plain view, yourself. You cannot find your personal reflection through other people’s words or actions. Breath for a moment and find yourself through your own train of thought. Your greatest inspiration is yourself, stop constantly looking at others for the answers.